Dear Kemi, how do I win my man’s heart?

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Dear Kemi, I need ur advice. How do I tell my fiance that I want us to stop having sex and not get him angry. He is d type dat won’t stay arnd me and nt want to have sex with me. I want to stop so dat atleast wen we get married I will have to do it without feeling guilty. Tnx and I …

DIY Bride: Lavender and Coconut Oil Hair Treatment

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Applied topically, coconut oil actually does a few things for your hair. First, it nourishes the hair shaft to create a vibrant sheen. It also conditions the hair to restore moisture and repair damage. Also, when applied to the scalp, it can help reduce dandruff and soothe sensitive or itchy skin. Tip: For beauty uses, choose extra virgin, unrefined coconut oil. Lavender also has numerous …

4 Important Lessons in Relationships

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I have an insatiable interest in relationships. It never ceases to amaze me the issues that arise in an attempt to somewhat peacefully co-exist with a Significant Other. The issues and debates are endless, which perhaps, in itself, fuels my interest in the subject. I read widely on dating, marriage and their challenges. And I must say that I’ve learnt a lot. But true to …

On Ivie Okujaiye’s Wedding: The (Bride’s) Heart Wants What It Wants

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I honestly had no idea who Ivie Okujaiye was until this last weekend and it was only because she wore sneakers at both her traditional and white wedding. Not only was her choice in bridal footwear totally nonconformist, her wedding dress was also knee length. The horror! Anonymous Nigerians had a field day in the comment section of popular wedding blogs with reactions ranging from …

22 Benefits of Being Married

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1. You’ll have a live-in spider killer. 2. Someone will always be around to reach the top shelves in the kitchen. 3. You’ll live longer; studies have shown married couples live longer. 4. You’ll always get a Valentine’s Day present… and an anniversary present! 5. Your husband is like a built-in toe warmer waiting on the other side of the bed. 6. You will always …

Skincare and Grooming Tips for The Groom

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Many times we forget that the bride won’t be marrying herself on the big day and all the attention is given to the her hair, nails, makeup, skin, shoes, mother, guests and totally forget the groom has to look sharp for the wedding photos. So today we’re sharing a couple of failprof skincare tips for the groom. 1. A killer haircut Chances are if you’re …

Dear Kemi, He Left His Wife For Me

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Hello Efe, I have a problem, I am dating a man who left his wife for me back in October last year. When things got really bad, he moved out and moved in (temporarily) with me, but still goes home from time to time. He says that he loves me, but he hasn’t made any moves to get a divorced. I have tried a couple …

Engagement Sessions: Lolu and Onome

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Their love story by Lolu(Groom) ‘It had been a relatively boring day and all a young man who just defended his project could do was sleep. I got a call from my pal Nubi about a party at Ikeja GRA, “oh well, this should be fun” i thought to myself as i got into my bro’s car and headed to Ikeja. When we arrived, there …

5 Ways to Please Him With Your Mouth

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The mouth is used in a variety of ways from speaking to eating, but when it comes to a woman’s lips, there is nothing more sexy than a nice, round, full pair that are inviting and soft to the touch. Lips are a sensory organ that can absorb information through touch, and send that information to the brain to strike up sexual arousal during intimacy. …